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Love or Lies? How to Spot and Stop Romance Scams

Keep Your Guard Up
1/29/2025

Love and the internet can be a thrilling combination. Dating apps and social media have made it easier than ever to connect with potential partners. But while the internet can spark romance, it’s also a haven for scammers looking to steal money and personal information.

In 2025, online dating continues to grow, with billions of users across the globe seeking companionship. Unfortunately, so do the losses from romance scams. According to the FTC, individuals reported losing over $1.3 billion to romance scams in 2024 alone, with scammers targeting people of all ages and backgrounds.

Protect Your Heart and Wallet: Red Flags to Watch For

  1. Refusal to Meet in Person or Video Chat: Scammers avoid face-to-face or virtual meetings, often claiming they’re in the military, working overseas, or dealing with a complicated situation.
  2. Requests for Money: They may ask for help with medical bills, flights, or urgent financial crises. Some even propose fake investment opportunities.
  3. Unusual Payment Methods: Scammers often request payment via wire transfer, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or apps like Venmo or PayPal.
  4. High-Pressure Tactics: They’ll create a sense of urgency to manipulate you into acting quickly, often without thinking things through.

What to Do if You Suspect a Scammer

  • Stop Communication Immediately: Block them on all platforms.
  • Talk to Someone You Trust: Sharing your concerns with a friend or family member can provide clarity and support.
  • Contact NorthCountry: We’re here to help protect your accounts and guide you through next steps.

If You’ve Been Scammed, Act Quickly:

  1. Let NorthCountry Know! We can help you out in scammer situations. 
  2. Report the Scam: File a report with the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.
  3. Notify the Platform: Let the dating app or social media site know about the scammer.
  4. Seek Recovery Options: If you paid a scammer through gift cards, wire transfers, or other methods, contact the associated company or us immediately. In some cases, you may be able to recover your money.

Stay smart, stay safe, and remember real love doesn’t come with a price tag.